The FFC thread is locked; but I’m not locking this blog post. Rummaging though a garbage heap to try and find some past sin horrible enough to make people ignore the present seems rather immature and desperate to me. I won’t publish Anonymous or “me too!” comments, but, everything else is fair game — I just encourage those comments to be constructive and not play the “ignore the problem to debate the past” game.
The FFC leadership in their usually desire to re-write history decided to remove my response to their accusations; those responses live on here. What remains on FFC is a testament to people who want only their own voices heard.
FFC demeans itself, I just point out the obvious. It’s hard to watch folks who are inadequately equipped and don’t know what they are doing; and watch those same people lying to themselves and others. I feel bad for whatever community comes there to be nurtured because you’ve proved yourselves to be headstrong and ignorant of how to lead.
It’s strong, but, let’s define your actions in more strong language:
- Silencing those who point out flaws
You’d have folks believe I was just stirring up trouble, yet, after I left you yourselves admitted you’d lied and the data you swore was unrecoverable in fact was, and your team was simple incompetent.
- Untrustworthy and with no respect for your words
Rukh was given a short ban to have him cool off; the first he was ever given. Then, after deciding more folks would come to FFC with him gone, or maybe that even though he’d never had a warning ban before he’d “used up all his changes,” you forsake your own word. Again, an admin choose to lie about the forum data rather than admit lack of ability; and even after you realized he was lying it took days for you to admit it, you still likely don’t believe he did anything wrong by lying.
- Of low moral fiber
I know I’ve been chastised for pointing some of the admins have gender-identification issues elsewhere; but the fact is a leader should be above reproach (II Timothy) and having admins teaching false doctrine of familiar spirits, having gender identification issues, and refusing to clarify their beliefs on sexuality is not acceptable for leadership of a Christian site.
- Acting on impulse without control
Lying on behalf of other staff; banning me when my account was already Deleted (yes, you did, get over it), allowing personally involved people to moderate discussion with “my-side bias”, and also see “untrustworthy” above.
- Impatient
After apply the patch I openly provided you could have ran off of Joomla for months until all data could have been migrated; instead you acted recklessly and without transparency, unwilling to seek or ask for help.
- Uncertain
You also seem to have issues laying out sin; in some cases in FFC the only sin seems to be calling sin, sin. Jesus was not a quiet man who was seeker-friendly and never called out sinfulness — you trying to be universalist does not represent Him.
In summary, (and I’ve posted this over at my blog as well in case it’s deleted here, I recommend comments go there since this forum will likely vanish at any time), I would recommend anyone who wants to join FFC use caution — because it doesn’t reflect God, and it’s leaders do not have a heart for ministry.
I also invite anyone that wants to come to http://christianfurs.net — it may not be universalist, but you’ll find we love God without needing to debate male genitals or which version of Catholicism is better.